They tell you that the first year is the hardest… they don’t typically tell you that it will always be hard. This doesn’t mean that it won’t get easier, it means that is just will probably never be easy – they are not the same things.
We have moved into the second year without Aiden, and so many are seeing it that way. Thinking of all the things that he will never do again… Thinking of the things that they will not get to do with him… How about this? How about focusing on all the things he did do? All the things we got to share with him? What about the thing we have learned? Yes, there is loss AND we gained so very much from having Aiden in our lives, in our hearts. There is a page here on this site to post things you remember, things you shared, things you learned, things you taught Aiden and things he taught you too  a place to share all things ♥ Aiden ♥